Apr 06, 2025
Louise is running a marathon
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Louise Blackburn
In April 2024, our world changed forever when my brother, David, died following complications from a brain tumour operation. Losing him has been devastating, and I miss him every single day. Even when faced with the daunting prospect of such a massive operation, David’s kindness and generosity shone through—because he had made the incredible decision to be an organ donor.
Thanks to his selfless choice, David was able to save and transform the lives of three people. That’s why I am running the Brighton Marathon to raise money for The Donor Family Network, a charity that supports families of organ donors. Their kindness and compassion during this difficult time have meant so much, and I want to help them continue their vital work.
I am also raising money for The George Coller Memorial Fund, a local asthma charity that David and I both supported for many years. Their work helping children with asthma is incredible and I want to continue that support in his honour.
Finally, I am fundraising for The Compassionate Friends, a charity that supports bereaved families—especially siblings like me—who are facing life after loss. Their work has been a source of comfort, and I know how much they help others going through the same pain.
David's decision to be an organ donor was a reflection of who he was—kind, caring, and always thinking of others. Through this marathon, I want to honour his memory, his generosity, and the love he gave to those around him. If you’d like to support me in raising money for these amazing causes, I would be so grateful for any donation, big or small.
Thank you for reading, for remembering David, and for helping to make something positive out of something so heartbreaking.
With love and gratitude,
Louise
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Thank you so much to everyone who has supported me. I have tried so hard with my training and hoping I can complete it and do David and everyone else proud.
0 likesI'm still plodding on and the sun shone on me today. Next long run is Saturday... aiming for 20 miles. My legs are very tired.
0 likesThe plan today was to get 15 miles under my belt comfortably. I did 15.5, I could have done more but I was soaked through after rain and hail. My hands were painful. Next week I am aiming for my long run to be 18. Fueling on the long runs is problematic and carrying all the required water. Luckily I have family on my route so this is my Sil and Bil providing me with a hydration station. Much appreciated. Thank you to all of my sponsors.
0 likesDavid and I loved Inside Number Nine. In 2021 we went to Nottingham and watched Reece Shearsmith and Steve Pemberton talk about the series. They mentioned that they wanted to make it a stage play. We both said that we would have to go to that. Life spins on a sixpence and today I am travelling down to see it in London. The photo is from that night. The coat he is wearing is from Welcome to Nightvale which we also saw in the theatre as a live show. It's actually a podcast. Someone recognised it was a Nightvale coat and he was so happy.
0 likesI honestly didn't expect the response that I have had. It's given me even more determination. I was out today running a very slow 15 miles.... but I did it. It's the longest I have ever run. I always run a lot faster in events. I like running in nature as much as I can but it's really muddy and that slows me down. Also pavements are an absolute nightmare as they are just jutting out all over the place. I can trip over nothing so Tree roots and wonky paving slabs are a danger. When it gets hard I just thing of the three weeks on ICU that David endured and it spurs me on. Thank you so much everyone.
0 likesIn April 2016, I ran a trail half marathon, but after that, my running became sporadic. By the time 2024 arrived, I hadn't run at all in a couple of years. Everything changed in April 2024 when I watched a friend run the London Marathon. It was an incredibly moving experience—made even more profound by the fact that it came so soon after David’s passing. In the midst of my overwhelming grief, I found unexpected inspiration in that moment. Something about witnessing the strength and determination of the runners sparked something in me, and I decided to start running again—not just for fitness, but as a way to process the unspeakable weight of loss I was carrying. At some point, the idea of running a marathon myself took hold. It felt like an enormous challenge, but also like something I needed to do. The journey so far hasn’t been easy. I’m not a fast runner. I’m certainly not a graceful one. In fact, I’ve fallen three times already! But despite the setbacks, running has given me a sense of focus. In a year filled with painful "firsts" after losing David, it has been one small, glimmering thread of something vaguely positive to hold onto. Right now, I’m running just over 12 miles, and I’m hoping to reach 15 by tomorrow. I even ordered new trainers today—an exciting, practical step forward. With the February half-term approaching, I’m looking forward to having more time to build my endurance and push my limits further. This journey is tough, but it’s also giving me something meaningful to work toward. Thank you for all of your support.
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