Out Of The Blue

Jun 26, 2025

Out Of The Blue

Out Of The Blue is a fundraising body established in memory of Will Beckett who took his own life at Beachy Head in January 2013, at the age of 42. This tragedy came as an incredible shock for our family and friends – it came simply ‘Out Of The Blue’.

In the immediate aftermath of Will’s death, our family was supported, guided and inspired by three charities – Winston’s Wish, Dragonflies and The Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team. CALM was added a couple of years later to highlight suicide prevention and mental health awareness. Out Of The Blue raises money to support these charities so they can help others like us.

Winston’s Wish provided invaluable advice in the first few days after Will’s death on how to explain the death to our young sons – Tom and Joe. All of Will’s family have benefitted from the information and booklets provided by Winston’s Wish. We feel incredibly grateful to them for their practical advice and compassionate support. Their specific knowledge of dealing with suicide and other violent deaths has been incredibly important for us. They continue to provide counselling to the boys and me - with great compassion and expertise.

Dragonflies, our local child bereavement charity, have shown great support to the family. Tom and Joe have attended support group sessions and an activity weekend alongside other bereaved children. In a group setting the boys have talked about their dad. They have been able to realise that they are not alone in their grief and that they are able to recognise and accept their different emotions.

The third charity we support is the Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team. Not only did they support a group of us when our search for Will ended at Beachy Head on that January day, but the work they do is truly humbling when it comes to human duty. We have witnessed first hand the work they do to encourage desperate and broken individuals not to end their lives. The service is staffed by volunteers and relies on donations to help them provide the service they do. Helping to prevent further suicides at Beachy Head would be a hugely positive legacy of Will’s death.

CALM were added due to their incredible work around suicide prevention. Their life-saving helpline and hard hitting campaigns, of which two we have been involved with, have had a huge impact and undoubtedly saved lives and opened the dialogue around suicide.

We would like to thank you all for your continued support and know all the money raised goes to our four amazing charities. We hope all our fundraising also raises awareness and prevents another family suffering the trauma our family and friends suffered.

Supporting

FSN (Fellowship of St Nicholas) Logo
FSN (Fellowship of St Nicholas)

Children | 208446

25%

FSN (Fellowship of St Nicholas) supports children young people & families to improve their life chances.

Campaign Against Living Miserably - CALM Logo
Campaign Against Living Miserably - CALM

Community | 1110621

25%

We’re Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) and we’re united against suicide. Take a stand against suicide, the single biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK.

Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team Logo
Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team

Health | 1098885

25%

Seeking to save lives at Beachy Head, using search and rescue, and crisis intervention to reach out, offering hope to anyone who is suicidal or in distress.

Winston's Wish Logo
Winston's Wish

Children | 1061359

25%

Winston's Wish is a bereavement charity supporting children, young people and their families after the death of someone important.

Supporters 114

  • J

    2 months, 2 weeks

    Jane Andrew

    Christmas tree donation

    £ 40.00

    (+£10.00) Gift Aid
  • A

    4 months, 1 week

    Anonymous

    £ 300.00

    (+£75.00) Gift Aid
  • L

    4 months, 3 weeks

    Liz and Irene Brierley

    £ 50.00

    (+£12.50) Gift Aid
  • E

    5 months, 2 weeks

    Elizabeth O’Rourke Andres

    In memory of our dear friend John. May he rest in peace with his dear son.

    £ 20.00

  • A

    5 months, 2 weeks

    Amanda Philcox

    In memory of John Beckett, my Bexhill College Principal and cheerleader for all us sixth formers. An inspirational leader and sports enthusiast. The perfect combination! I feel blessed to have known you. RIP.

    £ 50.00

    (+£12.50) Gift Aid
  • A

    5 months, 2 weeks

    Anonymous

    £ 25.00

    (+£6.25) Gift Aid
  • G

    5 months, 2 weeks

    George and Valerie Mighall

    Remembering a wonderful man who was an inspiration to so many young people.

    £ 30.00

  • P

    5 months, 3 weeks

    Pearl

    In memory of John and all the years we worked together at Bexhill College

    £ 10.00

    (+£2.50) Gift Aid
  • S

    5 months, 3 weeks

    Shirley Rees

    £ 50.00

  • S

    5 months, 3 weeks

    Steph Dawson

    £ 50.00

  • S

    6 months

    Sherry

    In memory of John and many happy years at Bexhill College under his leadership.

    £ 30.00

    (+£7.50) Gift Aid
  • S

    6 months

    Susan Burton

    With fond memories of John

    £ 50.00

    (+£12.50) Gift Aid
  • M

    6 months

    Martin & Steven Phillimore

    in memory of John Beckett

    £ 50.00

  • H

    6 months

    Helen and David

    In memory of John.

    £ 30.00

  • L

    6 months

    Laurie

    In memory of John: friend, colleague, mentor and inspiration.

    £ 100.00

    (+£25.00) Gift Aid
  • H

    6 months

    Helen and Pete

    £ 50.00

    (+£12.50) Gift Aid
  • M

    6 months

    Margaret Hodd

    My condolences Meg .

    £ 20.00

  • S

    6 months

    Steve Allen

    In memory of Mr Beckett, a teacher, in every sense of the word. Honoured to pay my respects to you yesterday John. Thankyou for the advice and guidance when I was an adolescent. I think I managed to turn out pretty well in the end...I shall raise a glass to you at Lord's in the Test Match. Much love to all to family. Steve and the Allen's

    £ 50.00

  • A

    6 months

    Anonymous

    £ 50.00

    (+£12.50) Gift Aid
  • A

    6 months

    Anonymous

    £ 100.00

  • R

    6 months

    Richard and Tricia Hardingham

    £ 50.00

  • A

    6 months

    Anonymous

    Thanks for everything Mr Beckett !!! The Pinkneys

    £ 200.00

    (+£50.00) Gift Aid
  • L

    6 months

    Lucy

    In memory of John Beckett. The best Principal. John had a big heart, a generous smile and wonderful laugh.

    €xx.xx

  • S

    6 months

    Simon

    Will John. Miss you. See you one day in the club house! If I make it !

    £ 200.00

  • R

    6 months

    Roy and Julia

    John was an inspirational educationalist and leader whose life touched so many in a positive way

    £ 60.00

    (+£15.00) Gift Aid
89%

£111,497.74

+ £832.50 Gift Aid

£125,000 target | 114 supporters

£105,877.74

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Charities Supporting

FSN (Fellowship of St Nicholas)

25%

Campaign Against Living Miserably - CALM

25%

Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team

25%

Winston's Wish

25%

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Jun 26, 2025

Out Of The Blue

Out Of The Blue is a fundraising body established in memory of Will Beckett who took his own life at Beachy Head in January 2013, at the age of 42. This tragedy came as an incredible shock for our family and friends – it came simply ‘Out Of The Blue’. In the immediate aftermath of Will’s death, our family was supported, guided and inspired by three charities – Winston’s Wish, Dragonflies and The Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team. CALM was added a couple of years later to highlight suicide prevention and mental health awareness. Out Of The Blue raises money to support these charities so they can help others like us. Winston’s Wish provided invaluable advice in the first few days after Will’s death on how to explain the death to our young sons – Tom and Joe. All of Will’s family have benefitted from the information and booklets provided by Winston’s Wish. We feel incredibly grateful to them for their practical advice and compassionate support. Their specific knowledge of dealing with suicide and other violent deaths has been incredibly important for us. They continue to provide counselling to the boys and me - with great compassion and expertise. Dragonflies, our local child bereavement charity, have shown great support to the family. Tom and Joe have attended support group sessions and an activity weekend alongside other bereaved children. In a group setting the boys have talked about their dad. They have been able to realise that they are not alone in their grief and that they are able to recognise and accept their different emotions. The third charity we support is the Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team. Not only did they support a group of us when our search for Will ended at Beachy Head on that January day, but the work they do is truly humbling when it comes to human duty. We have witnessed first hand the work they do to encourage desperate and broken individuals not to end their lives. The service is staffed by volunteers and relies on donations to help them provide the service they do. Helping to prevent further suicides at Beachy Head would be a hugely positive legacy of Will’s death. CALM were added due to their incredible work around suicide prevention. Their life-saving helpline and hard hitting campaigns, of which two we have been involved with, have had a huge impact and undoubtedly saved lives and opened the dialogue around suicide. We would like to thank you all for your continued support and know all the money raised goes to our four amazing charities. We hope all our fundraising also raises awareness and prevents another family suffering the trauma our family and friends suffered.

Charities Supporting

FSN (Fellowship of St Nicholas)

25%

Campaign Against Living Miserably - CALM

25%

Beachy Head Chaplaincy Team

25%

Winston's Wish

25%